Thursday, April 1, 2010

Connect.





Sometimes, some things are unexplainable. That’s what I’ve accepted after my last post!

I found yet another thing to baffle myself, or to put in some weirder yet simpler terms, I found yet another naked truth dancing in front of me!

Don’t you sometimes feel that X is very important to you but you don’t hold the same place in X’s heart? (I’m not talking about romantic disappointments! Anything BUT that!) I’m not even touching the I-love-you-but-you-don’t part. Just plain importance. Doesn’t it happen?

Like you care about the li’l kitty across the road, you bring her treats, tidbits, milk everyday, going out of your way. How does she reciprocate? By never letting you pat her, or even a grateful meow!

It’s not even the fact that the other person is cold hearted/mean/bitchy etc, but the fact that you’re just not there where you place the other person. Am I making even a tiny weeny bit of sense?

Great! If I am that is..

Oh Yes! It does hurt sometimes. It’s human nature after all. You do everything under the sun, over the ocean for them and they couldn’t care less..! But don’t think of it this way..

Did they ever oblige you to care for them? Did you sign an agreement laying down the rules?

Yes, that’s it. We weren’t forced to do it. Care. We care because we want to. Because there’s some deep connection which binds us to them. Think of it this way, they needed you to protect them and not vice versa. That there’s a strong string binding you, which you can see and feel, not them.

Because you’re the giver, not the taker!

Strange games the nature plays, eh?

10 comments:

WELCOME TO MY WORLD OF POETRY: said...

That's Life Miss Sunshine, you can give all the time to some people yet when you need some support where are they? still it's better to give than recieve they say.

Yvonne.

Miss Sunshine said...

Yes, that's what keeps us going, doesnt it?

♪♪HARINI♪♪ said...

Thats just so so very true!!!
Its like i had this favorite teacher when I was a kid and was madly in love with her and she was the olny reason and went to school and all, but to her, i was just another kid in her class :P

♪♪HARINI♪♪ said...

Thats just so so very true!!!
Its like i had this favorite teacher when I was a kid and was madly in love with her and she was the olny reason and went to school and all, but to her, i was just another kid in her class :P

♪♪HARINI♪♪ said...

awesome post by the way :)
It made perfect sense to me! :))

Miss Sunshine said...

I'm so glad that atleast we connect..! haha =)) and thank you :D

Princess Caspian said...

awsome!!!
It made perfect sense!!!

It happens to me all the time, and believe it or not i like doin so, still.

:))

Miss Sunshine said...

same with a lot of us i guess :)

The Blessed One said...

yeah u just wish THEY would show their love to u just the same right?

VST said...

Why get into that "giver-taker" paradigm?! Can there be more??? probably if the giver stops giving would it make that person happier? SO at the end of the day, are you a selfish giver or a selfish receiver is the question. The paradoxical tryst of selfishness... right?